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10 things the wealthy should leave their kids—besides money

The Wealth Report blog of The Wall Street Journal posted a list of 10 things parents should provide for their children. The list was created by ex-lawyer Peter A. White. From his story:

...White says he was discovering "a dissatisfaction with my life practicing law, a life focused on success and making money," even as the external accouterments compounded. "It wasn't fulfilling. After chasing success but not finding happiness, I took a step back. It was an evolutionary process but I made fairly radical changes in the way I was living."

White chose to employ his talents where his heart clearly lay. In 1986, while remaining of counsel to Fulbright and Jaworski, he founded International Skye Associates, Inc., a firm that provided personal counseling services and specializes in rendering services in the field of private wealth and philanthropy. White and his associates stressed "taking advantage of opportunities and solving problems according to the needs and goals of each family as defined by them, integrating modern thinking about business and finance with timeless wisdom from religion, philosophy, and the social sciences."

The WSJ post talks about the White's list of 10.

I met up with Peter at a wealth retreat in California last week. During his speech, he casually mentioned a list he created of the 10 things parents should provide for their children, which he called “The 10 Elements of Care.” The audience – mainly wealthy investors — wanted to know more, so Peter ticked off the list.

The list begins:

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Is there a compromise between religion and science that we have ignored? Shoud the sacred be reinvented?

Kauffman200 Dr. Stuart Kauffman has written a new book entitled Reinventing the Sacred: A New View of Science, Reason, and Religion. Today he was interviewed by Kojo Nnamdi. To listen, click and go to "A New Definition of Religion and Science"; the interview starts at about 3:47 minutes.

For more, I recommend Kauffman's article from Edge "Breaking the Galilean Spell," an excerpt from the new book. Article excerpt:

My aim is to reinvent the sacred. I present a new view of a fully natural God and of the sacred, based on a new, emerging scientific worldview. This new worldview reaches further than science itself and invites a new view of God, the sacred, and ourselves—ultimately including our science, art, ethics, politics, and spirituality. My field of research, complexity theory, is leading toward the reintegration of science with the ancient Greek ideal of the good life, well lived. It is not some tortured interpretation of fundamentally lifeless facts that prompts me to say this; the science itself compels it.

This is not the outlook science has presented up to now. Our current scientific worldview, derived from Galileo, Newton, and their followers, is the foundation of modern secular society, itself the child of the Enlightenment. At base, our contemporary perspective is reductionist: all phenomena are ultimately to be explained in terms of the interactions of fundamental particles. ...

Reductionism has led to very powerful science. One has only to think of Einstein’s general relativity and the current standard model in quantum physics, the twin pillars of twentieth century physics. Molecular biology is a product of reductionism, as is the Human Genome Project.

Read the rest of "Breaking the Galilean Spell."

On a related note, several people have sent me an article from today's New York Times by David Brooks. Excerpt from "The Neural Buddhists":

Lo and behold, over the past decade, a new group of assertive atheists has done battle with defenders of faith. The two sides have argued about whether it is reasonable to conceive of a soul that survives the death of the body and about whether understanding the brain explains away or merely adds to our appreciation of the entity that created it.

The atheism debate is a textbook example of how a scientific revolution can change public culture. Just as “The Origin of Species” reshaped social thinking, just as Einstein’s theory of relativity affected art, so the revolution in neuroscience is having an effect on how people see the world.
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In unexpected ways, science and mysticism are joining hands and reinforcing each other. That’s bound to lead to new movements that emphasize self-transcendence but put little stock in divine law or revelation. Orthodox believers are going to have to defend particular doctrines and particular biblical teachings. They’re going to have to defend the idea of a personal God, and explain why specific theologies are true guides for behavior day to day. I’m not qualified to take sides, believe me. I’m just trying to anticipate which way the debate is headed. We’re in the middle of a scientific revolution. It’s going to have big cultural effects.

Extraordinarily interesting and, in my point of view, important issues. If for no other reason than the cultural implications, I plan to watch and think deeply as this "revolution" unfolds.

Law School in a Box: All the prestige for a fraction of the price

Imageviewaspx Law School in a Box even includes a "rolled diploma with real Latin words." Learn more about this cheap alternative to law school here.

Sure, you could spend $100,000 on a law degree from Harvard or Yale. But then you’d have to deal with crowded classrooms, inconvenient course schedules, and rigorous academic study.

[Here's] an alternative: Law School in a Box. This prestigious boxed university offers a complete legal education ... [including]:

  • Law School in 96 Pages: Your Comprehensive Textbook
  • 10 Heroes of the Courtroom Trading Cards
  • 10 “You Be the Judge” Cards
  • A devilishly complicated legal-trivia bar exam

Any alums out there?

SUCCESS Magazine picks top 50 entrepreneurs in recent American history: Have any additions for the list?

Logo SUCCESS has posted a list of the greatest entrepreneurs, including Benjamin Franklin, Martha Stewart, Ralph Lauren, Sam Walton, Oprah Winfrey, Ray Kroc, and George Lucas.

The greatest entrepreneurs are those who revolutionize business, open opportunities for others and change the way we think and live. Their impact is felt for generations. The SUCCESS 50 represents America's greatest entrepreneurs of all time. They are self-made men and women representing a cross section of America, with innovations that opened up the West, heralded the Gilded Age, created an American middle class and ushered in the Information Age.

They ask you to let them know who else should be on the list.

Want to celebrate the unique past, present and future of your life, your pet's life, your firm's life? An intriguing new Web site

Lifesagersgraphic A brand new Web site has arrived on the Internet. Celebrations of Life is very ambitious with its many ventures, all focused on celebrating lives and legacies. Those legacies upon which COL focuses are not only of people, but also pets and businesses. COL's net sweeps deep and wide. Their goals seems laudable.

What are those goals? Learning from our past, fully living our present, and making a difference in our future.

From the Web site PR page, here's an overview of all their services and activities

Celebrations of Life helps individuals, families and businesses celebrate the extraordinary uniqueness of their lives. Specially trained professionals help clients remember, honor, and share their life stories and values; make purposeful life and career transitions; and leave a meaningful legacy for their loved ones and communities. Products include: life story memoirs, pet remembrance stories, ethical wills, next chapter transitions, meaningful family legacies, and business visions, values and histories. The company also provides flexible, engaging careers for people age 50+ called LifeSAGErs™.

I wish them well and am optimistic about their potential since one of the partners is my friend Dr. Barry Baines, the guru of ethical wills.Featurebox1

idealawg is now an Alltop blog

Alltop, all the cool kids (and me)

I am very pleased to be included in Guy Kawasaki's featured blogs at Alltop. The site's tagline is "We've got all the top stories covered all the time." And I am honored to be a part of this group of blogs that was added today:

Visit us all at http://law.alltop.com. Tag line for this section of Alltop: "We've got Law covered."

Coach and coax your brain to create new habits: Lay down some new tracks

Traintracks Want to make some changes in your life? Is there something you want to quit doing? Or start doing? If yes, then please read one of the articles I have written with Jeffrey Schwartz to which I have linked and from which I have taken excerpts below.

I was pleased to see an article in Sunday's New York Times in which was a discussion about self-directed neuroplasticity (changing your brain on purpose). The article's author Janet Rae-Dupree did not use the phrase "self-directed neuroplasticity but nevertheless described it.

HABITS are a funny thing. We reach for them mindlessly, setting our brains on auto-pilot and relaxing into the unconscious comfort of familiar routine. “Not choice, but habit rules the unreflecting herd,” William Wordsworth said in the 19th century. In the ever-changing 21st century, even the word “habit” carries a negative connotation.

So it seems antithetical to talk about habits in the same context as creativity and innovation. But brain researchers have discovered that when we consciously develop new habits, we create parallel synaptic paths, and even entirely new brain cells, that can jump our trains of thought onto new, innovative tracks.

Rather than dismissing ourselves as unchangeable creatures of habit, we can instead direct our own change by consciously developing new habits. In fact, the more new things we try — the more we step outside our comfort zone — the more inherently creative we become, both in the workplace and in our personal lives.

Click to read the rest of "Can You Become a Creature of New Habits?"

Here are more tips on changing your brain from two of our articles.

From "Brain Management . . . Law Firm Leadership on the Neuro Frontier" (Of Counsel):

Let’s say that you have decided to listen more to your prospective clients, clients, partners, associates, or staff. Perhaps you have heard, as a result of some business development or management or mentoring training program, all about the benefits of being a good listener. But as you begin a conversation, you feel the need to talk, even pontificate.

Now, you confront the moment of choice. That moment of choice holds the gold in self-directed neuroplasticity, in controlling the rewiring of your brain. You can choose to talk. If you are accustomed to being more of a talker than a listener, your brain will call to you to follow the old neuron connections, the old and well-worn synapses. These old synapses are habitual and the most comfortable for you. The old paths fit like a pair of used, comfortable slippers or jeans. They are seductive and part of the familiar you.

Or you can choose to listen. If you experience the powerful urge to open your mouth and talk, you are going to need to begin to develop some new brain grooves, some new synapses. Not as easy as going with the old ruts and grooves, but it is doable and the good news is that it gets easier and easier. Each time you choose to listen instead of talk, you will be developing and strengthening new neuron connections, new listening synapses.

The more you choose to listen, the stronger those paths will grow. After a while, listening will feel old slipper comfortable, too. Then, when an interaction occurs, you will have the choice of which brain path to follow depending upon which is appropriate to the situation. In any event, you won’t simply be governed by an old habit.

From "Exercise Mind Hygiene On A Daily Basis" (The Complete Lawyer):

...Golden Moments of Choice are possible because your brain is always changing (that's called neuroplasticity). The changes are either by default as it interacts with

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Lifestyle issues in a sister profession related to lawyer quality of life: What's up or down, Doc?

Newbornbaby Does improving a physician's quality of life enhance patient care? The majority of those interviewed in this article from Medscape say yes. As I read the article, I kept wondering if the questions presented apply to the legal profession, too. I think they do. From "Improve Physician Quality of Life to Enhance Patient Care":

Doctors are under too much pressure, experts warn, and this is having a negative affect on patients. Physicians who are overworked, overburdened, and generally stressed out are less available to patients and not as effective. Disregard the basic needs of healthcare professionals and patients are soon neglected too.

Do overworked lawyers equal underserved clients?

A recent blog post on the medical profession (Brain Blogger) looks at both the doctor quality-of-life question, and also at the shortage of physicians in the US. Is the shortage because of the increase of women physicians and their working fewer hours, or because of a generation that wants a different kind of life?

Time are changing and the next generation of physicians are not going to stay up all night and take call at any hour of the day to maintain the physician-patient relationship.

Do female physicians work less than their

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TIME announces its list of the world's most influential people

Time magazine's list of the top 100 of the world's most influential people was announced today. Some of107_t100landing_2 the people on the list:

  • Dalai Lama
  • Vladimir Putin
  • Barack Obama
  • Hillary Clinton
  • John McCain
  • George W. Bush
  • Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie
  • Oprah Winfrey
  • Oscar Pistorius
  • Mia Farrow
  • Andre Agassi
  • Randy Pausch (Pausch's blog)
  • Michael Bloomberg
  • Craig Venter
  • Jill Bolte Taylor (my blog post about Taylor)
  • Mehmet Oz
  • Nancy Brinker
  • Harold McGee
  • Lorne Michaels
  • Miley Cyrus
  • Robert Downey Jr.
  • Herbie Hancock
  • Joel & Ethan Coen
  • Bruce Springsteen
  • Indra Nooyi
  • Ali al-Naimi
  • Rupert Murdoch
  • Steve Jobs
  • Radiohead

Two upcoming dispute resolution conferences

From the Alternative Dispute Resolution listserv come announcements of two conferences, both sponsored by the Werner Institute at Creighton University.

June 3 - 5, 2008 International Conference on Creating Cultures of Engagement in Health Care

This forum provides an opportunity for us to envision a new way of working together. Building on successful strategies and guiding principles used by conflict engagement specialists, collaborative lawyers, and dispute resolution professionals experienced in working with innovative health care organizations, attendees will learn effective techniques that foster collaboration in health care environments around the world.

June 5 - 7, 2008 International Conference on Chaos, Complexity & Conflict

This first-of-its-kind-conference will focus on applying chaos theory, complexity and emergence to the field of conflict resolution. Experts on complexity studies will come together with practitioners and educators of alternative dispute resolution. Together we will discuss how an understanding of complexity can bring the field of conflict resolution to a higher level. This interactive conference will focus on the integration of theory and real world applications for practitioners of alternative dispute resolution who are working with complex organizations.

"World's greatest law firm": Anyone know which firm Malcolm Gladwell is talking about?

Gladwell's newest book is coming out in November. In the publisher Little, Brown and Company's catalog (pdf) is this excerpt:

OUTLIERS is a book about success. It starts with a very simple question: what is the difference between those who do something special with their lives and everyone else? In OUTLIERS, we’re going to visit a genius who lives on a horse farm in Northern Missouri. We’re going to examine the bizarre histories of professional hockey and soccer players, and look into the peculiar childhood of Bill Gates, and spend time in a Chinese rice paddy, and investigate the world’s greatest law firm, and wonder about what distinguishes pilots who crash planes from those who don’t. And in examining the lives of the remarkable among us—the brilliant, the exceptional and the unusual—I want to convince you that the way we think about success is all wrong.

Any idea which firm Gladwell is calling "the world's greatest"?

More about the book from both Amazon and the publisher's catalog (p. 39):

In this stunning new book, Malcolm Gladwell takes us on an intellectual journey through the world of "outliers"--the best and the brightest, the most famous and the most successful. He asks the question: what makes high-achievers different? His answer is that we pay too much attention to what successful people are like, and too little attention to where they are from: that is, their culture, their family, their generation, and the idiosyncratic experiences of their upbringing. Along the way he explains the secrets of software billionaires, what it takes to be a great soccer player, why Asians are good at math, and what made the Beatles the greatest rock band.
 
Brilliant and entertaining, OUTLIERS is a landmark work that will simultaneously delight and illuminate.

I am looking forward to reading Outliers when it comes out.  And to learning the identity of the "world's greatest law firm"!

Hat tip to 800-CEO-READ Blog.

Trying to choose your next book? You may want to read one on this list

Bolist1 Telegraph (UK) has published a fascinating list of what they are describing as cult books. From the article:

What is a cult book? We tried and failed to arrive at a definition: books often found in the pockets of murderers; books that you take very seriously when you are 17; books whose readers can be identified to all with the formula "<Author Name> whacko"; books our children just won’t get...
 
Some things crop up often: drugs, travel, philosophy, an implied two fingers to conventional wisdom, titanic self-absorption, a tendency to date fast and a paperback jacket everyone recognises with a faint wince. But these don’t begin to cover it.

Cult books include some of the most cringemaking collections of bilge ever collected between hard covers. But they also include many of the key texts of modern feminism; some of the best journalism and memoirs; some of the most entrancing and original novels in the canon.

The list of 50 cult books includes:

Any titles you think should be included?

New edition of THE COMPLETE LAWYER now online: The focus is "A sound mind in a sound body"

Coversound Another chock-full edition of The Complete Lawyer is up and awaiting your reading eyes and minds. Articles include one I wrote with Dr. Jeffrey Schwartz: "Exercise Mind Hygiene On A Daily Basis." Excerpt:

Do you ever have days when you describe your life as out of control?  Is your career going in an unintended direction? Do you feel as if you don’t have the time to assess whether your personal and professional trajectory is consistent or colliding with your goals and values, or if it’s aligned with your daily preferences? If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, stop! For just a moment, step off the treadmill and join us on solid ground.

Do you want to take control? If so, you already have the necessary tool—your reflective mind. Unfortunately too few people use this life-correcting instrument. Instead, most lawyers operate in a reactive mode. Some are so governed by the billable hour that their brains are like metronomes, still keeping time even when they are away from work, preventing them from paying full attention to life outside the office. Others are so motivated by fear of not scaling the Mt. Everest heights of the legal profession, of not meeting elusive standards or not moving fast enough that they suffer self-induced workaholism. Sadly, some lawyers are so governed by their reactive brains that they become physically ill.

Other don't-miss articles:

And much, much more! This edition includes the second column written by my sisters in the ADR 'hood (Vickie Pynchon, Diane Levin, and Gini Nelson) and me; click to read the new installment of our "The Human Factor."

Something for everyone in The Complete Lawyer. Enjoy.

Note (added May 2, 2008, 12:04 PM Mountain): From one of my favorite blogs (because it is smart, sharp, short, sassy, and even once in a while silly), an announcement of this edition of TCL. Do NOT miss how What About Clients? heralded this The Complete Lawyer; what they did is good for your mind and your body. Get moving! Love that crew of bloggers—Holden Oliver, Brooke Powell, Tom Welshonce and Dan Hull. Kind of a hybrid of Miley Cyrus, Benjamin Franklin, Britney Spears, George Washington, Robin Williams, and Angelina Jolie. (Maybe throw in a teaspoon of the Dalai Lama and Starhawk, too.)

A month of playful picks from YouTube

1553498547_33218baa53_m Need some play in your day? Spirituality & Practice has created a Play Month. For each day of April, they have chosen a YouTube video selected especially for its playfulness. Play selections are mainly songs from the 50s: "Purple People Eater," "YMCA," "Dizzy," "Great Balls of Fire," "Splish Splash," "Louie Louie" and more. Do not miss "The Lion Sleeps Tonight"! Click on over; I bet at least a couple will make you smile, if not stand up and dance. Hey, play!

It is a happy talent to know how to play.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

I count that day lost when I am not moved to laughter or tears, but even more if I have not played.
- George Sheehan

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